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How a future therapist uses astrology for relationships, parenting & self-discovery

Rachel Loewenherz
How a future therapist uses astrology for relationships, parenting & self-discovery

What happens when astrology stops being something you read and becomes something you can actually talk to?

For Blake Pierson, that shift changed the way he used astrology.

Blake had already been exploring astrology for about four years when he discovered Star Path. He'd used popular astrology apps like The Pattern and Co–Star, particularly to explore relationships and synastry.

But he was looking for something different.

He didn't just want an astrology app to tell him what his birth chart meant.

He wanted to be able to ask questions about what was happening in his actual life — while it was happening.

That's what led him to Star Path.

And it opened up a completely different way of using astrology.

What Is AI Astrology?

AI astrology combines artificial intelligence with astrological data to create a more interactive, personalized way to explore your birth chart.

Traditional astrology apps typically give you pre-written interpretations: here's what your Sun sign means, here's today's horoscope, here's an interpretation of a particular transit.

AI astrology can work differently.

When an AI astrology platform has access to your personal birth chart, you can ask questions about your relationships, patterns, decisions, current transits, or experiences — and explore them through the lens of your astrology.

Instead of:

"What does a Scorpio Moon mean?"

You might ask:

"Why am I taking what happened with my son so personally?"

Or:

"What does our synastry say about why we keep misunderstanding each other?"

Or even:

"I'm going through a huge period of change right now. What in my current transits might help me understand it?"

That's the difference between simply learning about astrology and beginning to use astrology in everyday life.

From Static Astrology Readings to a Conversation With Your Birth Chart

One of the biggest differences Blake noticed when he started using Star Path was how personalized the experience felt.

He'd found useful insights in other astrology apps. But the experience was relatively static.

With Star Path, he could ask follow-up questions.

And then another.

And another.

He described it as a "dynamic, fluid" experience: he could ask questions in real time about his relationships and what he was experiencing, while Star Path reflected those experiences back through the lens of his personal astrology.

That distinction matters.

Because life doesn't happen in neatly organized categories.

You don't usually wake up thinking:

"Today I'd like to explore the meaning of my natal Mars."

You wake up thinking:

"Why did that conversation bother me SO much?"

That's where personalized AI astrology gets interesting.

Using AI Astrology for Relationships and Synastry

One of Blake's primary uses for Star Path is relationship astrology.

In astrology, synastry is the practice of comparing two birth charts to explore the dynamics between two people.

It can show where connection comes easily, where two people may experience friction, how they communicate differently, what each person needs in relationships, and where they may activate something deeper in one another.

But there's an important distinction:

Synastry Isn't Supposed to Tell You Whether a Relationship Will "Work"

It's a lens.

Blake described relationships as inherently messy — and saw value in entering that messiness with greater awareness and more options.

While navigating a romantic relationship, he used Star Path to explore both their synastry and the astrological transits happening in his own life.

It didn't make the decision for him.

Instead, it helped him step outside the immediacy of what he was feeling and see the situation from a wider perspective.

That's an important part of how we think about astrology at Star Path.

Your birth chart isn't an instruction manual.

It's not here to make your choices for you.

It's a tool for seeing the landscape more clearly — so you can choose how you want to move through it.

Using Astrology to Take Things Less Personally

One of my favorite parts of my conversation with Blake was actually about parenting.

Because Blake doesn't only use synastry romantically.

He uses it with his sons.

And he shared an example that beautifully demonstrates one of the most practical uses of relationship astrology.

Sometimes, one of his sons will do something that hits Blake emotionally.

Without context, it's easy to interpret that behavior through his own lens:

Why is he acting like this?

Why doesn't he understand why this matters to me?

Why does this feel so personal?

Then Blake can look at the dynamic through their astrology.

His son has Mars in Aries. Blake has a Scorpio Moon.

Suddenly, he's able to consider:

Maybe his son isn't experiencing this interaction the way Blake is at all.

Maybe what feels emotionally loaded to one person is simply the other person moving naturally through the world.

As Blake explained, that perspective can "take the personalization out of it" and help him connect with who his son actually is rather than only interpreting his son's behavior through his own emotional experience.

This May Be One of Astrology's Greatest Gifts in Relationships

It gives us another language for difference.

You can love someone deeply and still be wired completely differently.

Your partner doesn't necessarily need what you need.

Your child won't necessarily process emotions the way you do.

Your friend may communicate in a way that would feel completely unnatural to you.

Understanding those differences doesn't mean excusing hurtful behavior.

But it can make it easier to separate:

"This person is different from me"

from:

"This person is doing something to me."

Astrology as a Language of Compassion

Astrology has sometimes been called a language of compassion.

I love that description.

Because when you begin to understand someone's blueprint, it can become harder to assume that everyone should operate the way you do.

Of course, astrology doesn't excuse our choices.

Your birth chart isn't a get-out-of-jail-free card for behaving badly.

But understanding another person's cosmic wiring can give you context.

And context can create compassion.

Blake connected this idea to something even deeper: intimacy.

To him, intimacy involves understanding and accepting who you are while also being able to stand beside another person and recognize their truth — even when their truth is different from yours.

That's a very different use of astrology than trying to determine whether two zodiac signs are "compatible."

It's astrology as a practice of seeing.

Can AI Astrology Replace a Human Astrologer or Therapist?

No.

And it shouldn't try to.

Blake is currently studying to become a counselor, so I was particularly interested in his perspective on where a tool like Star Path fits alongside therapy and other forms of personal growth.

He made an important distinction.

There are things that happen through human attunement — the experience of being witnessed, understood, and held in relationship with another person.

AI isn't a human being.

It can't replace that.

But Blake sees another valuable role for Star Path: mirroring.

Getting new information about ourselves can help us see our experiences differently.

For Blake, Star Path can act as that kind of mirror — helping him see himself in new ways and develop greater compassion for himself, which can then affect how he relates to other people.

That gets at something fundamental about why we built Star Path.

AI Astrology Doesn't Have to Replace Human Astrology. It Can Fill the Space Between the Big Conversations.

I love live astrology readings.

I'm an astrologer, and I still book readings with other astrologers.

A great astrologer can see patterns you couldn't see yourself. A therapist can provide something an app never can. A coach, teacher, mentor, or trusted friend can change your life.

But then the session ends.

And you go back to living your life.

That's where the messy part starts.

How do you integrate what you learned on Tuesday when you're triggered again on Friday?

What happens three months later when you're making a huge decision?

What happens at 11 PM when something clicks and suddenly you have another question?

Having access to personalized astrology in those moments creates something that wasn't really possible before.

Not a replacement for human wisdom.

A way to keep the conversation going.

How Can You Use AI Astrology in Everyday Life?

There isn't one "right" way to use AI astrology.

But instead of only asking your astrology app what a placement means, try bringing it something that's actually happening in your life.

For example:

For relationships:

"I keep feeling misunderstood by my partner. What patterns in our synastry might be contributing to this?"

For parenting:

"My child and I approach conflict completely differently. What can our charts tell me about what each of us needs?"

For self-discovery:

"I keep noticing this same pattern in my life. Where does it show up in my birth chart?"

For current transits:

"I feel like I'm becoming a different person lately. What's happening astrologically right now?"

For decision-making:

"I'm considering a major change. What themes in my chart and current transits might be useful to think about?"

Notice that none of these questions ask astrology to make the decision.

They're asking it to help you see more.

That's the point.

What Makes Star Path Different From Other Astrology Apps?

Star Path is an AI astrology platform designed to help you have an ongoing conversation with your astrology.

Instead of only giving you generic horoscopes or static birth chart interpretations, Star Path brings your personal astrology into the conversation.

You can explore:

  • Your natal birth chart
  • Current astrological transits
  • Synastry and relationship compatibility
  • Astrocartography
  • Personalized astrology reports
  • Patterns in your relationships, work, identity, and life
  • Questions about what you're experiencing right now

You don't need to know how to interpret a birth chart.

You don't even need to know what astrological question to ask.

You can start with your life.

"Here's what's happening. Help me understand it."

And go from there.

A Different Way to Think About Astrology

Near the end of our conversation, I asked Blake how he would explain Star Path to someone who had never heard of it.

His answer wasn't really about astrology.

He described it as having access to an outside perspective in the middle of your day — one that already knows something about you and your history.

I think that's why this new era of AI astrology is so interesting.

For a long time, astrology has given us maps.

Birth charts. Transit charts. Synastry charts. Astrocartography maps.

Now we can talk to the map.

We can bring it our actual lives — the confusing relationship, the parenting struggle, the giant opportunity, the identity shift, the Tuesday-afternoon existential crisis — and ask:

What am I not seeing here?

Not because astrology has all the answers.

But because sometimes, seeing yourself from a different angle changes the question entirely.

Try Personalized AI Astrology With Star Path

Star Path is an AI astrology platform that helps you understand your birth chart — and use it in your actual life.

Ask questions about your relationships, current transits, career, identity, patterns, decisions, parenting, or whatever you're navigating right now, and explore what your astrology has to say.

Explore Star Path

Want to hear Blake describe his experience himself? Watch our full conversation below.

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Rachel Loewenherz
Rachel Loewenherz
Founder of the world's first AI chat platform built on astrology. B.A in religion from Yale. 15+ years in tech, strategy, and Western astrology (both modern & Hellenistic).

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What can I use astrocartography for?

You can use astrocartography to plan trips, start new chapters in life, or create experiences that activate different parts of who you are (or who you could be). Because astrocartography is essentially your birth chart layered onto the globe, the energy of planets intersects with places - so you can use it to find places that'll amplify your career, your love life, or even your health and healing. Some popular applications of astrocartography include choosing places to visit or live - especially ones that align with goals you're pursuing, experiences you want to have, or even big transits.

What’s the best way to use this software if I want to eventually become an astrologer myself?

Step one of an astrology journey is to understand yourself. Truly, understanding how different placements, aspects, and transits show up in your own life will give you the most embodied knowledge of how astrology "works". Once you get it for yourself, it's easier to apply it for others (which you can do by chatting with Star Path about people you add to Your Circle). That being said, we also offer Astrology 101 classes as part of our Pro+ plan - so if you want to start a formal learning process, that's a great place to begin. 

Do you think AI like Star Path will replace astrologers?

No, we don't believe AI will replace astrologers :) Rather, we see Star Path as a beautiful complement to working with a practitioner - because as the therapists who use our platform say, 90% of "the work" happens in between sessions. We recommend that people see their astrologer as they can afford to (for many people, it's once a year) - and use Star Path in between sessions to fully integrate their learnings, and go deeper. By chatting with Star Path regularly, you actually re-pattern your brain - and for that reason, many of our users say that 2 weeks of Star Path is like 10 years of therapy! This is because you can go as deep as you want, as often as you want, which leads to rapid breakthroughs, pattern shifting, and real-life integration. A session with a human astrologer can change your life, but you don't always have access to them...so the ideal pairing is to see practitioners as often as you can afford, and work with Star Path between sessions to go deeper, troubleshoot day-to-day situations, and apply your astrology to real life.

Why is Star Path different from other AI astrologers?

The Pattern, AskSoma.ai, and Sanctuary are astrology apps that use AI. Star Path flips the script: it's a full-scale AI chat platform built on astrology. This means you can use it just like ChatGPT or Claude - for therapy, business strategy, or self-discovery - with all the features of an AI chat platform (plus the rigorously accurate math of a professional astrologer). This lets you go deeper, and immediately use what you learn about your birth chart in practical ways.